Relationship Coaching in Boulder for Individuals, Couples, Leaders
Come home to your body
Lead from your core
Create electric intimacy
Rest easy
Welcome. I’m Nick.
I’m a somatic and relationship coach based in Boulder, Colorado. I work with individuals, couples, and leaders—offering in-person coaching in Boulder and Denver, and virtual sessions worldwide.
I support people who are ready to relate differently: to themselves, their partners, their leadership, and their lives. Whether you're looking to deepen intimacy, shift long-held relational patterns, or lead with more grounded clarity—this work meets you where lasting change happens: in your nervous system and in your conscious awareness.
This work is somatic, intuitive, and deeply practical. We begin by rewiring your nervous system—unwinding patterns of fight/flight survival, so you can stop reacting to life. At the same time, we bring conscious insight to the habits and stories shaping your life.
From that synthesis, change is inevitable. Relationships evolve. Love, leadership, money, and purpose begin to align, because your capacity and vision are far broader.
Your insights, emotions, and desire. My presence and facilitation. Together, we bring what’s inside into motion—reshaping everything.
Testimonials
Khuyen’s Journey
Feroz’s Journey
Rosi’s Journey
What Is Somatic Coaching?
Soma is the Greek word for body—and it’s where true, lasting change happens.
Most people try to change through thinking alone. Insight is important—but the patterns that shape your relationships and choices don’t live in your thoughts. They live in your nervous system: in the part of you that hesitates to speak up, braces for disappointment, turns down joy, or overextends to feel safe.
In life and in love, we repeat what’s familiar—because we’re wired for safety, even when it keeps us stuck.
“The conscious mind can process about 40 bits of information per second. The unconscious, embodied mind processes closer to 11 million.”
— Harvard researcher Timothy Wilson
When you learn to work with your body instead of against it, everything shifts. Somatic coaching integrates the clarity of your mind with the intuitive power of your body—so change doesn’t just make sense, it feels right. It lasts.
This work is an unraveling of old ways of operating, and a creation of new possibilities. To love with more openness and less armor. To lead from alignment rather than performance. To have a far higher capacity to enjoy life outside of worry. To completely transform relationship and emotional loops.
It’s not about trying harder. It’s about allying with the part of you that already knows how to heal—and letting that change ripple through everything.
Who I Work With
This work is for individuals and couples—online, or in person in Boulder or Denver—who are ready to reclaim both their power and their tenderness, in service of their dreams.
You might resonate if…
You keep cycling through the same patterns—in love, work, money, or your nervous system—and know it’s time to change from the inside out
You want a deeper, more trusting relationship with your body, nervous system, intuition, and power
You’re ready to release old relational wounds so you can love with openness, clarity, and depth
You long to express your truth more freely—whether that’s your boundaries, your desires, or your creative fire—and to be met in it
You’re ready to enjoy your life—not in theory, but in your body—and to embrace the beautiful risks that make life worth living
You want to build a life or relationship rooted in meaning, integrity, and connection
You’re done tolerating. You’re ready to say a full-bodied YES or NO to what really matters
This is relationship coaching for people who are sensitive, awake, and unwilling to settle. And somatic coaching for those ready to lead, love, and live from their core.
About Me
My deepest training hasn’t come from institutions—it’s come from life.
From years living at a wolf sanctuary. From navigating chronic illness and healing through the intelligence of my body. From heartbreak, repair, and learning how to love in totally new ways. And from creating the extraordinary partnership I have today—one built on truth, embodiment, and devotion. That too has been one of my greatest teachers.
I’ve formally trained in coaching, somatic psychology, mediation, meditation, and yoga. But my real credibility comes from walking through the fire, apprenticing with world-class mentors, and sitting in thousands of hours of honest, transformational conversation.
Certifications include: ICF-certified coach (ACC), BA in Somatic Psychology, Robbins-Madanes Core 100, Certified Mediator, RYT-200 Yoga Teacher.
This is an Inclusive Coaching Space
I work with clients of all identities, relationship structures, and lived experiences—locally in Boulder and Denver, and virtually across the world. This is trauma-informed, somatic coaching rooted in dignity, choice, and the belief that every person carries their own deep wisdom—the kind that can guide healing, growth, and liberation.
I work with folks across a wide spectrum, including those who are:
In monogamous or non-monogamous relationships
LGBTQIA+, two-spirit, and gender-diverse
People of color, immigrants, and refugees
From poor, working-class, or formerly incarcerated backgrounds
Living with disabilities or chronic illness
Of diverse religious, spiritual, or non-spiritual paths
That said, I also know that feeling seen matters. If you're looking for a coach who shares a particular part of your identity or experience, I’ll do my best to refer you to someone who may be a better fit. You deserve support that feels truly aligned.